Indeed. They technically suspended me for like a month or two but after that time was up I asked about why I hadn't been unsuspended and they kept dragging it out. Eventually I forgot about it and over a year later I was unsuspended.
I'm betting that the rules have been relaxed, but no official statement has been made. I submitted a pair of cartoon video clips, one of which was called "Dongpocalypse," and I wasn't suspended. I mentioned NSFW in the description, and while there were, yes, dongs and dildos and discussion of same, it wasn't like something from RedTube or what have you.
So... I dunno. Maybe it's a gray area that you can try submitting videos for while clearly labeling what you're offering and keeping your fingers crossed.